Whether you’ve just met each other or it’s been years and years in your relationship, you can still make him fall for you all over again. Before you shake your head and laugh, it’s true. You apply some of these tactics and in no time at all he’ll be following you around practically begging you to see him.
- Be physically attractive to him. Now I don’t mean you have to look like a supermodel (that’s really not what most men want anyway). What I mean is be yourself and make an effort to keep up that appearance. Try wearing something that’s a little out of your comfort zone to grab his attention. Instead of donning your favorite jeans every day, break out a dress or skirt. If you wear flats, try heels. Switch up your makeup or decide on a new hairstyle. Actually, a key part of your appearance is how you smell. Choosing the right scent can make you wildly attractive to your man. In particular, guys love the scent of vanilla, so anything with that base is a very good choice. Points to apply it are on the wrists, behind the knees, behind the wars and in your hair. Remember not to rub wrists together though, or you’ll squash the fragrance molecules.
- Maintain an air of mystery and intrigue around you. Want to keep him guessing about you? It’s time to leave him wondering what you’re doing and how you’re doing it. The plan is to reveal as little as possible about you without pushing him away. For example, he could ask you about your hobbies. Your reply could be that you have a hobby that involves having a high insurance deductible and that he should come along one weekend with you. Don’t let the cat our of the bag though. Guys are naturally competitive and love playing chase to find out all about you. So again the key to remember here is to be vague, but not too vague.
- Keep a good sense of humor and wit. There’s nothing so bland as a girl that can’t laugh at herself or other’s jokes. Don’t hold back with laughter if you think something is downright hysterical. There’s nothing so alluring to a guy than a girl who can raucously laugh with the best of them. If she has crude humor, well that’s great too, just don’t be crass or offensive because that’s not attractive at all. Jokes about his family or heritage or strictly off limits unless you want the man in question to walk away from you
- Show your independence. Own it. Leading on from our last point of being humorous and witty, maintaining your own independent streak is equally as attractive to a guy. Show him that you don’t need him to live your life, but you lke to have fun when he’s around you. A girl that has her head on straight and can make decisions on her own is immeasurably attractive. Try and make yourself fun and use body language that signals to him you’re open and receptive to his advances. Standing in the center of a room can do wonders to attracting men.